Confused

I really don't know what to do right now. I am really confused in a lot of areas. I don't know what to do about school, I don't know what to do about all my responsibilities, I don't know what to do about all my friends who are leaving for school in the next couple months, I don't know what to do about work and keeping money in my bank account, I don't know what to do about my faith which as of late has been nearly non-existent. I just don't know... I seem to always be in this state of confusion or at least have been for the last year or so and I don't know how to change it. I don't know if its because I have to many distractions in my life or what but I just can't seem to get close to God anymore and I know he hasn't gone anywhere. But I have I have wondered away and I can't seem to find my way back or if I do I get lost shortly after that. On top of all this spiritual confusion I have even worse emotional confusion. It seems that I just can't stand being single or maybe it is just because I am attracted to so many girls idk but I am always day dreaming about a time when I will have a girlfriend and just looking and finding lots of girls that I would love to go out with however always finding that either I don't have the courage to ask or that they are not interested in a relationship at this time or just not one with me. This distraction in my life is crippling me and causing me to reach out for things that have become huge footholds in my life. I find it hard to resist temptation of pornography and lust and other things when I am alone. Its hard for me to not have unpure thoughts. Even my tounge is starting to let words out that are not pure in nature. I need to purify my heart, I need to purify my brain, I need to purify my mouth. I NEED TO PURIFY MY LIFE! But I can't seem to do it on my own. In the bible we are encouraged and called to work together to overcome strongholds in our lifes and I am seeing now that as long as I try to overcome this on my own I will fail. And I know that as long as I leave my bible on my shelf and sleep in just before I have to leave for work I will countinue to fail. So here is what I would like to ask all of you who read this. You are my friends, Godly friends. I am asking you to help me stay accountable even though I wont like it. I actaully hate it when people don't see me as nearly perfect in every way. However I need to humble myself as no one is perfect besides God no one is even close so I need to let go of my pride and humble myself before my Savior and allow Him to work in my life to change me for the better that I might be a vessel to bring Him glory. Well there was the easy part: Saying it. Now comes the hard part: ACTION. Please pray for me!!!